What I learned on my non-summer, non-vacation

by selfmademom on March 6, 2009 · 2 comments

I’ve never been so tired from a vacation trip in my entire life.  I’m not complaining about spending a week in the sunny mountains of Colorado, but oh man, if someone would have told me I would have been woken up at 5:30 every morning only to take care of a delerious non-napping toddler for the duration of my vacation trip, I would have asked to be sent back on the next flight back to O’Hare even if the only spot was in the cargo hold.

Vacations trips as a solo parent are exhausting.  While Nana and Papa are supremely helpful, no one is mommy.  No one can put a jacket on like mommy. No one can fill a glass of milk like mommy.  No one can wipe a nose like mommy. No one can play with the zebras and “smooth tigers” like mommy.  Yes, we bring the Schleich on vacations too.

There were times of pure joy and happiness in between the mommy mommy whining.  Ever see a 3-year-old on skis? It’ll melt your heart.  And your wallet, but that’s where Nana and Papa’s helpfulness come in handy.

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I ignored couldn’t hear the shouting for mommy through the helmet.

I know I’m extremely lucky to have been able to get away like this.  But I just once wanted the roles to be reversed.  Mommy, can I get you a glass of milk? Mommy, would you like to sleep in after sunrise?

But as such, I am the mother of a toddler, who, in strange locations, just needs a familiar being to latch onto.  Besides, by the end of the vacation trip, everyone around me was too tired to pitch in even if the little man would have let them.

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Ski lesson for the grandson: $100. Falling asleep on bench at lunch spot: priceless.

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Shelli March 6, 2009 at 9:35 am

We did a vacation last year with just the three of us, and it was hard. Not once could we roll up to a bar and have a drink after 7pm. My son was latched to either myself or my hubby.

This year, we are going to the same place (Hilton Head, SC) in May with our in-laws. You’re right, it doesnt bring total freedom either, but it at least guarantees us a night alone at the outdoor bar. lol.

Shari March 7, 2009 at 9:31 pm

Too funny! I take the girls to spend a week on a relative’s farm every summer and it’s a lot like your trip. Now that the girls are a bit older, I’m hoping it will be a bit more relaxing.

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