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A Follow Up to the Blow Up

by selfmademom on August 26, 2010 · 7 comments

I don’t want to belabor “the post” or the topic. I’m tired!

But my head, twitter stream, email box have been filled these past few days with the major #fail by Toys “R” Us and Lead Dog Marketing with the pitch heard ’round the world (which, should be noted, the microsite related to the pitch is currently “under maintenance.”)

I don’t want to belabor “the post.”

I will, however, take this opportunity to make some additional comments on “The Situation” as it stands now. Also, because Kim’s a yenta and she asked.

  • The big question. No. I haven’t heard from any representative of Toys “R” Us or their agency Lead Dog Marketing. I can’t say I’m all that surprised, actually. What did I expect? I assume that they’ve seen the twitter streams. I mean, the infamous microsite is “under maintenance” now. Something’s up. But, I didn’t think hat they’d actually respond to the twitter streams. Clearly, there is a disconnect between client/ agent and really, I wouldn’t want to be involved in those conversations now. I didn’t want or expect any sort of apology or acceptance of wrongdoing over email. I don’t need that. But, I would have liked a response from someone, anyone related to this to at least have sent out some sort of communication to my twitter friends and/or I something like, “we heard you, we understand your concerns, and we’re having internal conversations/ working on it/ doing some shots to think better about it.” Just something simple. But, as of 9 pm on this Thursday night, radio silence.
  • What I would do if I were running the “I Want to Be a Toys R Us Mom” Campaign right now. Because I do think at the core it’s a great idea. And, the tagline is catchy. First, I’d send out an email to those who’ve been pitched, or, at the very least, those that have been vocal in tweeting about the campaign that those voices have been heard. I’d then spend time culling the contact list of bloggers and web site owners to ensure that the right targets are being targeted (i.e. I delete those who asked to be deleted!) And I would stop calling them/ us “mom promoters.” Because we aren’t at a night club, people. I’d rethink the fundamentals of the campaign. TRU wants community and local outreach? Host company-sponsored events at the local stores but don’t ask bloggers to make “in store” appearances, as if they’re Geoffrey the Giraffe. Invite them as VIPs. Take them on a behind-the-scenes tour of the revamped store. Let them test out merchandise. Do a giveaway but don’t make the bloggers do it. Treat them like you’d treat a reporter who was covering the retail industry. Make them want to write about you, not “promote” you. We all know your main goal is to get people in your stores, but one of the fundamentals of PR is third-party advocacy, and nowadays there’s no better way to get people in your stores than word of mouth. Let it happen organically. TRU wants a banner ad online campaign component to complement the in store events? Pony up the dollars and pay for it. PR can work more organically, but you gotta pay for banner ads.
    (Edited to add: It occurred to me in the middle of the night – of course – if TRU/ agency wants a “microsite” so badly, why not host that on the TRU.com site? Then, select an exclusive number of “TRU Moms” to help with the online campaign. TRU moms can contribute to the microsite, review new products/ stores, comment on likes/ disklikes of toys, etc. If Wal-Mart can do it, so can they!)
  • I need to apologize. I was talking to my husband this week who rarely makes appearances or mentions on this blog (other than my best one-liner from the last post) about the attention this one post got on my itty-bitty blog. He’s my best critic and biggest fan really, even though he keeps a low profile. (Just ask Cynthia about that.) He thought I could have made the point about the agency’s blogger relations outreach #fail without laying into Emily and Lindsay so much. I do not regret “naming names” because those two were the “face” of the campaign and outreach, but I do regret making their names so central to the point. The point that as a marketer you must understand your audience and what you are asking for and be smart about your plan. I made plenty of mistakes as a junior-level account exec. But there was no blogosphere then to call it out. Taking a step back after a few days, I’m sorry I didn’t generalize it just a little bit more.
  • I want to figure out where we all (me included) go from here. I’ve felt this way about blogger/ brand/ agency relations since I started blogging 4 years ago. But this is the first time I’ve been able to articulate it properly and in the right context. I’ve gotten so much support from so many amazing bloggers and friends from this post that it’s very inspiring to do something and make something of that voice I have. So we’ll see about that. But I also want to figure out how to make this better without having the same conversation over and over again. Because as I said in the post, neither sides are all right or all wrong. In five more years of blogging (my husband says “oy”), I don’t want tweets to say, “PR people don’t get it” or “I can’t believe someone asked me to do a sponsorship without payment” or “I hate PR people.” I’m not entirely sure how we’re all going to get there, but it will probably have a lot to do with attending awesome conferences and the kind of grass-roots education my post and others provide. Maybe I’ll even attend one one of these days.

And, with that, I’m going to attend to my other “Situation.” Testing out the best jeggings.

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Silent Blog Auction

by selfmademom on August 10, 2010 · 8 comments

I had to cancel my eBay auction, but Alma had a great idea to host a silent auction for the Embassy Suites American Girl Package. Bid in the comments, and I’ll match the value of the package to Alma’s favorite charity!!

Remember when I auctioned off my BlogHer swag last year on eBay? I had so much fun giving off those proceeds to the Chicago Abortion Fund, that I’m at it again.

This year, I’m auctioning off on eBay the American Girl Party Package I got at the Kenmore Mom’s Night Out for my dear friend Alma’s upcoming bat mitzvah. It’s so important that we support our fellow Jews for going through such an amazing rite of passage. Kim just did it, and Alma will be chanting next week. And I’ll be there to watch!

So, please spread the word (and bid) on an amazing party package complements of Embassy Suites Chicago Downtown which includes:
American Girl Slumber Party Package at the Embassy Suites Chicago Downtown which includes:
- Overnight adventure for American Girl Doll
- Stay in spacious suite and American Girl fold out bed for doll that can be taken home
- Special Slumber Party Amenity delivered to your room with turndown service that includes an in-room movie and treats for both you and AG doll
- Complimentary full cook to order breakfast each day
- Complimentary managers reception
- Indoor pool and fitness center

And good luck and Mazel Tov to Alma for taking on such a challenge. I know she’ll do GREAT!!!

Bid in the comments below to win!! Starting Bid is… $50!

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An Internal Monolgue Report: Conflicted

by selfmademom on May 23, 2010 · 10 comments

My internal monologue is constantly conflicted:

About whether or not I should take on more “work” right now. (Mind says yes, body says no.)

About what television I’m going to buy tomorrow. (Panasonic or Samsung?)

Wondering if it will be too much to leave my son at school for naptime because we all had a very tiring weekend. (I reaaaaalllly need him to stay.)

About how I’m going to clean up the mess that is my house during remodeling. (Hire out, I think.)

About whether or not I should call the doctor because the baby isn’t rolling over yet or if I should wait until he’s officially seven months. (Neurotic jewish mother nonsense.)

About what I should wear for above mentioned “work” meeting. (Nothing looks good in 90 degree heat.)

About if I should grow out my hair or leave it. (???!!???)

Whether or not I should waste all my babysitter hours on volunteer stuff at my son’s school or just drag the baby along. (I hate dragging the baby and I hate spending money on sitters.)

What I should do with all the memorabilia I just moved out of my parents’ house. Keep it?  Throw it out? (Who needs 5 years worth of camp letters?)

On if “boyfriend” style jeans will really look good on me. (Leaning towards no.)

Any votes? What’s your internal monologue saying now?

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What do cool aunts and brain color have in common?

by selfmademom on February 2, 2010 · 0 comments

They’re both topics I wrote about in the February issue of Chicago Parent. Thanks to Melanie and Sheila for making my job easy!

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Lactation Nation, cont. plus a giveaway

by selfmademom on January 17, 2010 · 0 comments

Back about 8 weeks ago, I was singing my own praises about my abundant milk supply and breastfeeding prowess. Now, I’m just a regular-old nursing pro.  But while I have mastered the hooter-hider, (I highly recommend the Bebe Au Lait ones, and I’m not being paid to say that.) I have not mastered the attractive or comfortable other nursing gear.

Tempted not to spend a lot of money on a product, like a nursing bra, that I might have only used for a week or two, I bought a few cheapie ones at Target. Ten weeks later, they are still highly unattractive and not very comfortable.

Which is why I jumped at an offer by my friend Beth to test out (and giveaway) a new nursing wardrobe by Bravado. (I am being compensated to say this.)  Bravado, apparently a well-recognized brand in the lactation nation but unknown to a rookie like me has come out with an affordable line of nursing gear at Target called Basics by Bravado. Yay! Just one more thing I need to add to my cart.

The stuff looks totally comfortable, and I like how on their website Bravado itemizes each item’s use and purpose.

See? She didn’t cheap out on nursing gear like I did.

I’ll tell you how it lives up to its promise when I get my gear to test out.

But, in the meantime, you can enter to win $500 worth of must-have baby items by entering the Basics by Bravado “Spot a Mom” by following these easy steps:

  • Find the nearest Target store in their area offering Basics by Bravado nursing wear.
  • Visit the store and snap some pics of themselves finding the Basics by Bravado store display.
  • Email their photo, along with their name and contact details to basics@bravadodesigns.com.  

Let me know if you decide to do it! If you do, I’ll put you in a pool to win Bravado nursing gear plus a DVD. I NEVER do contests like these, but now I’m like a member of La Leche or something. Well, not quite, but who doesn’t like free stuff? Good luck!

Disclosure: I am being compensated for writing a review of Basics by Bravado and conducting the contest. Not for breastfeeding, although if I was I’d be a bizillionaire right now.

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Back in Action

by selfmademom on June 4, 2009 · 1 comment

I have made it back from vacation, tropical-depression free. I suppose the only depression I’m feeling now is the one that knows I have 8 loads of laundry to do and a stack of mail to go through.  So while I go tend to my life again, why don’t you read what I’ve been up to?

That’s it for now, but I’m interviewing some really interesting parenting professionals this month for CP and I’ll be sure to fill you in on their brilliance.

Now, back to reality.

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My friend’s mom is on Facebook

October 29, 2008

Now that I’ve downloaded the Facebook application to my Blackberry, I now get all friend requests (all 1 of them a week) as quickly as technology makes possible.  Typically I look at my friend requests remotely and then check them out more thoroughly on the site. It’s not like I’m that popular or that I [...]

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To circus or not to circus?

October 22, 2008

Would you take your kids to the circus even if you’re ethically opposed?  That’s my latest quandry over at Work It! Mom. I’d love to know what you think!

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Maternity clothes redux

October 17, 2008

Wondering where I’ve been the last two weeks? Unpacking my maternity clothes. I’m kidding, but seriously, I forgot how many ugly maternity clothes I have. I must have been deluded by all the progesterone scurrying through my body of late, but early on in this pregnancy I actually got excited to see my maternity clothes again.  I [...]

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Hi, I’m alive

October 2, 2008

I’m here. Barely.  But I did manage to write a ditty about doing the dirty over here at Work It! Mom and want to give a shout out to my fellow Chicago Mom Bloggers who are part of the DonorsChoose.org Blogger challenge.  It’s a great cause, so click through!

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